This ‘kids leaving home’ business is all new to me. When they were born everyone said, “Enjoy every minute, it goes by so quickly!” and I did and it did. Ten weeks ago our eldest girl child and her grandmother took off across the ocean. It was the longest and furtherest flight from the nest… Continue reading

The other day I needed to rinse something. It didn’t need to happen in that exact minute, but I walked to the kitchen sink, swivelled the tap and put the baby’s cup under the steady flow of water that my daughter had been using to fill containers. I might even have nudged her gently to… Continue reading

You can open or lock up anything, quite easily, if you have the right keys. One turn, a hardly noticeable ‘click’ and the job is done in a moment. A long time ago when my first child was just a year old, he managed to lock himself into the car. I had been loading groceries… Continue reading

When I was a little girl, we would go and stay with friends of ours who lived on a farm in the Lowveld. Sandy roads, dry grass, herds of cattle, a rocky dam to swim in, three meals a day all sat together around the table and dark, quiet nights all snuggled in our beds,… Continue reading

When I was in my second year of studies I caught a proper case of the blues. One of my professors called me into her office, pulled a graph up onto her laptop screen and asked, “What is this?” The graph might have been illustrating a plane in the throws of a crash landing but… Continue reading

All of a sudden there are a lot more birds in our garden. Birds I’ve never seen before. We were discussing it recently, when one of us piped up, “Maybe it’s because of all the development going on around here? They’ve had to relocate.” By default, we have become one of the safe places to… Continue reading

I think it’s correct to say that parents are always learning alongside their children. We have never ‘made it.’ Fathers and mothers can’t be the sort of people who would like to learn something, master it, write the exam and, at the very least, pass. You cannot do your doctorate or become a professor and… Continue reading

Our home schooling journey has been one filled with wonder and discovery. I could write for days of our triumphs and our mistakes, but tonight I just want to write for a short while about ‘atmosphere.’ We figured out, early on, that no family is quite the same as another family; and that within a… Continue reading

We have just come out of a typical cool, dry winter and when it should have rained in the seasons before, it did not. The land is parched, the drought is for real, the wind blows dust into our eyes and onto every surface in our houses and the sound of rain on our tin… Continue reading

Is there a family tree, as in one singular tree, or is it more like millions of seeds planted down the ages that grow into forests of shade and orchards of fruit; a complex weaving of branches to hang swings from and knot holes to create safe spaces in, a network of roots intertwined and… Continue reading